I have this friend, we have lots of mutual friends but have just recently become friends ourselves. She is a lovely girl and we click and get on so well, but my gut just keeps saying no. I've never experienced this before. It's just a strong gut feeling that tells me not to be friends with her. Which is odd for me because I don't have a huge amount of friends and am usually very grateful when I make a new one. She doesn't seem to have great boundaries which is something I'm working on myself and seems a little needy, again, something I'm trying to work on within myself. So maybe that's what's telling me to stay away.
Anyone else ever experienced this gut feeling?
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