Nice and disrespectful don't go together....
Teasing is common amongst friends. It isn't necessarily a sign of disrespect, it could be a sign of comfort and trust. I only joke tease the people I am comfortable with. I am also comfortable being teased by them, because there is a mutual respect and trust between us so we know neither is serious. We will also respect one another's sensitive areas.
Have you ever asked why they tease? Or ever told them that it isn't funny to you? If you smile and don't say anything they will assume you're ok with the teasing.
And if they are serious with it, then they aren't nice nor are they friends.
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