I only text very close friends at weird hours when I am in crisis mode (as a carer for my mother) but I don't expect a reply. It's just one of the things I do to let people know what's happening and how I am. I can't imagine texting a date like that, but that's because I can't ever imagine having a date. I work, I care for my mother, my cat and the house and that's it. I sincerely wish you every happiness with finding someone right for you. If I'd made as much effort as you when I was younger, maybe I wouldn't be where I am now (crazy old spinster looking after 85 year old mum, with no life). Go for it!