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Originally Posted by tired_soul
My new BF is leaving me with mixed emotions after every time we meet and is triggering my anxiety...
He's never been in a relationship (we are both mid 30is) and said to me that he needs some down time after meeting with me, which makes me worried and frustrated with him. The thing is that we're good when we are together, but I am always pissed off about something when we are not together. We spent the weekend together and it wasn't bad but it wasn't great either - I felt something was off and then he went cold and this is getting me frustrated.
I like him and I am attracted to him - but I need more compassion from him and he doesn't seem to be able to grasp that.
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It's so early in the relationship it sounds like that I dunno these signs seem to be red flags that you're not clicking like it should be in the first phase of a good relationship. I mean you should not be having anxiety about your bf already nor should you be considering changing him, which is what it implies when you say you need more compassion from him and he can't grasp it.
Perhaps that's just not the type of guy he is. please either accept that who you are with is enough and go with that or find someone that fits your needs better.