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Originally Posted by Hedgeleaf
My ex dropped my daughter back home tonight and asked why I was keeping secrets from him and her about someone I'm seeing?
His story;
She told him mummy loves someone and we are all going to spend christmas together and shes been told all of this is a secret.
Daughters story (she is 6)
She told me she did say that but that it was a dream she thought was real but now she knows it's not true and it was in fact a dream.
She's known to tell some tall tales.
Ex also mentioned my brother? Said hes been telling everyone about a guy I'm seeing. NONE OF THIS IS TRUE. my brother knows nothing and anything...
Anyway WTF!!
daughter burst into tears as she didn't get to say goodbye to daddy and that I shut him out 
He scared me so much was right in my face pointing and shouting.
I don't know what to do |
Whether you are or aren't seeing anyone is not anything that he has to know, none of his business, he's an ex. WTF does he think he is thinking you owe him any kind of accountability about your dating life? he is so far out of line I don't blame you for being angry but you should be more angry at him for being nosy about something like that than about whether he was told such a story.
She's 16 and can't tell if a dream was a dream or not? I'd be kind of concerned about that also. That's kind of old to have a hard time with dream vs reality discernment.
First I would tell him it wouldn't be any of his business if you were seeing someone and that he has no right to know either way. leave that at that.
Then I would tell your daughter it's not her place to reveal information to him about your love life but yours and yours alone unless you tell her otherwise.