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Originally Posted by Hedgeleaf
My ex dropped my daughter back home tonight and asked why I was keeping secrets from him and her about someone I'm seeing?
His story;
She told him mummy loves someone and we are all going to spend christmas together and shes been told all of this is a secret.
Daughters story (she is 6)
She told me she did say that but that it was a dream she thought was real but now she knows it's not true and it was in fact a dream.
She's known to tell some tall tales.
Ex also mentioned my brother? Said hes been telling everyone about a guy I'm seeing. NONE OF THIS IS TRUE. my brother knows nothing and anything...
Anyway WTF!!
daughter burst into tears as she didn't get to say goodbye to daddy and that I shut him out 
He scared me so much was right in my face pointing and shouting.
I don't know what to do |
Are you okay? I would be scared too, and then my defenses would kick in and I'd yell back at him, asking what business it was of his what I did with my life and who I saw. But that's just me.
He seems controlling and jealous all at the same time. I wouldn't tolerate that. It's not acceptable. I would do as suggested and demand that he stop yelling at you in front of your daughter otherwise he'll have to have supervised visits with her. Not only does this send your young girl the wrong message about how parents should act in front of their kids, but she's probably already confused by the breakup in the marriage and why her father isn't always around anymore.
Anyways, please take care and be safe.
