To be honest, everyone has good points and such but it really is that there is no specific rule to abide by here, every individual is different therefore every relationship has different rules and meanings. Some say chase is good, other say that chasing in a relationship isn't right. Some like to keep the mystery, others want transparency up front. Who knows which is right, right down to how often, when and what to say in texting.

Use your best judgment. and if possible find out what is ok with him and right for you both.