Talk to them then. I know it won't be the same but you can always talk to people. I believe they're listening. Go to a cemetary and talk, or write a letter and burn it. Try doing something to get your feeling out.

Just a thought.

This poem helps me when I am missing special people I have lost.

Some people come into our lives & quickly go
Some people move our souls to dance
They awaken us to understanding
The passing whisper of their wisdom
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon
They stay in our lives for a while,
leave footprints on our hearts,
and we are never, ever the same
Anonymous