Being brave can be oh so hard to do.

Realize that obtaining information and encouraging a patient to open up is something a doctor deals with multiple times a day. Please take solace in the knowledge you aren't the first and only one to remain tight lipped, hesitant, or even embarrassed that he/she will have dealt with. They are trained to deal with patients in a calm manner that should encourage a patient to feel they are in a safe space. Know too, that these professionals should be good listeners. And, if they judge themselves to be unable to do so, they are in a position to refer you to someone who can.

If you do encounter one of those jerks out there, please don't let that prevent you from trying again.