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Old Dec 08, 2016, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I'd be bothered by it too. Recently, when he was checking to see if we could meet at the usual time the following week, my marriage counselor said he'd have to have a "hard stop" at 2:45 (our appointment is at 2, and they're 45-50 minutes). I asked for us to schedule a different time (and we did). I didn't tell him this, but it's because he tends to run late, so I figured the chance we'd get our full session in would be slim. Turns out it was good we rescheduled, because we had a pretty intense session, and he kept us a bit over, and the extra time helped us resolve something. So glad we didn't have a hard stop. Keeping clients over at times is one reason he runs late, but it's often been helpful for us, so I am OK with him doing the same for other clients, as long as it's not like 20 minutes late every time.

I'd definitely say something to your T though about it bothering you. Hope you get to have most of your session today!
I guess what irritates me the most is that she just "remembered" about this last night. She doesn't work on Fridays, so no time or chance to reschedule. Anyway....session is in an hour....so gotta run! Thank you. I just wanted to know if I was out of line...if I were to say something about it today. I'll check this thread again before I go in.
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