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esthersvirtue said:
I dont get what i need sometimes :-( and where do you go then? At least imagining someones response and not trying feels better then when you try and its not there.

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Yes, sometimes we don't get what we want/need but we don't "really" get it at all when we live in our imagination, make stuff up. The only chance of ever getting for real what we want and need is to ask for it, to make friends with people who are available (like good T's) and who can give us what we want when we ask for it, and sometimes read our minds :-) when we can't or are afraid to ask. Too, getting to know ourselves and how good we can be for ourselves helps too. All our lives we've been giving to ourselves, been meeting our needs, that's why we are still here :-) The problem is we don't give ourselves enough credit, don't rely on ourselves very much, think good things only come from "others".

Look how resourceful and caring you are for yourself, coming here and posting this, intuitively knowing we'll be here for you and love/care about you. You are there for yourself, 24/7! Thank yourself