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Originally Posted by toolman65
This guy is a chronic people pleaser.
She has moved on, but the silence is making him anxious that she is mad at him.
This isn't about her. It is about him feeling guilty.
His story about her being possessive doesn't match his actions of texting her weeks after the breakup.
Why would you want to stay in contact with someone who made you unhappy if you didn't need to?
You are not naive. i think you are the more mature one.
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Thank you.
I know break ups must be a very emotional time, he was probably feeling angry at her when he said those negative things about her to me, but I know deep down he does want her in his life as a friend as they did spend many years together.
I just hope he doesn't still have feelings. The 'missing our time together' part worried me, and some people on other forums have been saying that he's not over her as well, so it seems the majority think that.
