That's just it though, things feel great between us. He invests a lot of time in me and is so wonderful to me.

The texts to her are the only red flag and really took me by surprise. I hope it's as you say that he's just feeling really guilty and doesn't want her to hate him and said he is missing her to show her he isn't heartless.

Sorry I keep going on about it. It's can't stop ruminating about it at the moment.