Hello, ThinkOfANameQuick, and welcome to Psych Central--again! You might consider joining our teenage groups here. There's a forum and a social group: http://forums.psychcentral.com/teens-lounge/ and
http://forums.psychcentral.com/group...-problems.html.

Don't give up on therapy. As the Skeezyks says, it takes the right counselor and a good bit of time. But it's worth it.