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Old Dec 08, 2016, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted by kecanoe View Post
I can see where having an embarrassing conversation would make you feel like yuck. Sounds like a tough session-first, the rejection of the scheduling mistake, then the abandonment over your art, then talking about stuff that is hard to talk about (and from what you said, maybe stirred up feelings of loneliness).

Can you do something nice for yourself?
I bought Grace Vandervaal's CD, you know the 12 year old who won America's Got Talent. Listening to her makes me feel good!

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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Rainbow
Where are you with the loss of your husband? Have you grieved this loss yet, it's a year since he passed, is that right? This time of the year must be hard for you there sounds like a misattunement between you and your t tonight. She had an agenda for your session but you had other ideas, does your t know how much you missed your husband today?
I don't know how to answer you. I haven't talked about my H a whole lot in therapy because I saw the hospice grief counselor. I tend to avoid grief. My T knows my conflicted feelings. I feel free but I miss him. I didn't think about missing him until after the session. When my Mom died I did the same thing. I haven't grieved for my Dad either. Sometimes I do. I cry for all of them and for the inevitably of death. Sorry if that's triggering. Thank you for remembering, mona. Yes, it's a year already.
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