The more I learn the worst it gets! So he told me that after I confronted him that he text the hairdresser to tell her "he can't see her anymore" EXACT words. When she called he told her that he had lied to me about where he was getting his haircut because his ex accused him of having an affair with her in the past and he didn't want me to think the same thing. He said he handled all of this terriblely.
I came unglued. So many things wrong with this.
One: he felt obligated to tell her he wouldn't be getting his haircut by her. Two: the choice of words. Three: he told her what was going on. She deserved honesty? He lied to me for three days before he admitted to it. Btw she is "just a woman that cuts his hair".

I ask him to call her, he said ok we will get this settled. Then he says he deleted her number, I gave it to him. Right before he called. I said just tell her you need to make an appointment. He looked puzzled. I want to hear what she says. As he dialed the number he said, she will ask about us. I said that's fine. Well, she didn't answer! He said if she calls back and she may not, he won't talk to her if I'm not there. Then he said, I blocked her on his phone. So I took his phone and unblocked. Several hours later she still did not call.
Still nothing, I ask him if he heard from her and he said no. I ask did you block her and he said no. He grabbed his phone to show me the call log and I know he was unblocking her number.
I know He doesn't realize that if you block a number on phone and not on his account that the number still shows up on log. I didn't even ask to see the log because I'm positive her number will show up and he will come up with a stupid excuse. So he either lied about her contacting him or he blocked her numbe it to make me think she didn't contact him.
He is still trying hard to keep us together and show me how much he loves me and wants me in his life. I still don't believe they were having sex.
Maybe he's scared she will say something that will make me angry or he's hiding something.
Either way. He's still lying and the fact he felt like she deserved the truth and and I didn't.
So tired!