I was very small when it happened
Maybe 7 or 8
He was my neighbour, probably 16 and his sister used to tutor me (i don't recall her age but lets say she was 20)
Their family was called the Nepalis in the neighbourhood (because they were from Nepal)
And as much i can recall they were not a really you know peacefull kind of family
(I once overheard 1 sister shouting profanities to the other which were so crude they scared my younger self)
Anyways they had these small cute puppies and i absolutely loved them
I visited their home quite often because of my tutions and well puppies
So one day i went there and found the youngest brother was the only one at home
No problem, i just waved like always and went to pet the puppies
Then he came over and was like 'you are my guest and i can't leave a guest unattended'
'Let me show you how we care for our guests here'
'You just haven't seen our mahman navaji (i don't have a English word for this but its basically caring for the guest)
(In India guests are considered equal to the God)
So i was like ok show
So he took me to the living room
Then first he stripped waist down and the proceeded to take off my skirt and panties
All this happen so fast that i was unable to stop it or shout or really understand what was actually happening
Then don't now from where his elder sister miraculously entered the scence and i don't recall the exact details but i am pretty sure she stopped him before he was able to strip me complety
What i remember is coming out of the house adjusting my skirt and thinking if everyone knows
If that shopkeeper knows or do my other neighbour know?
Can they tell?
Would my family know when they see me?
At the time i didn't now what happened
I pretty much forgot about what happened but i avoided the house like plauge and it was a pretty much a subconscious decision
I don't remember any interaction with him or seeing him again except when one day when i was hanging out at my dad's clinic and came to get his fractured arm fixed
I don't remember feeling anything other than slight discomfort and panic and he acted like nothing has ever happened
Some years after that they moved out but i don't remember any further interactions or even seeing him in the neighbourhood before they did
I don't think this event had any effect on my personality or psychology
I mean i can't even recall the event properly
I didn't get chills when i think about it or consider as something really you know affecting
I basically don't have any feelings on the matter
I mean i was really small and well nothing happened
Do you consider this as abuse?