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Default Dec 10, 2016 at 02:01 PM
 
AllHeart - Yes it concerns me greatly. To be honest, I know it only got this far because my T has allowed it to go this far. I have been the one who has been keeping it in check.

LonesomeTonight - Yes I had the impression my T was jealous. I agree, my T was quite strong in assuming that I would want a session to talk about sex with T before I go to the therapist. When I was obviously quite uncomfortable T didn't seem to get the message.

Thanks for your opinion on the legs comment. My T's body language was very forward too. Leaned forward and smiled at me in a flirtatious way as T said it. It is undermining our therapy as my childhood was abusive and it is making me feel unsafe.

I do feel like T is going out of T's way for me. For example, at Christmas time, T said she would arrange childcare so we can have our therapy session. I thought this felt weird as wouldn't the T want to spend time with T's children?

My T is female and I am female so all in all it felt very awkward. I know you can get women who fancy women but I just didn't expect this to happen in a million years.

Can I ask how you have you brought up boundaries you think have been crossed in therapy/transference? I want to bring up these concerns but there's quite a lot to discuss and I want to handle it in the best way possible. Thanks!
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