Thanks for the advice, Perna. You're absolutely right. I think I've been fighting the urge to face the reality of this situation. I am angry and disappointed. I'm not having trouble keeping up or meeting my obligations. She is.

The bottom line is that the project must be done and on time. A lot of people are depending on us. She either needs to step up and do her job, or quit reaming everyone else out when they have to step in and do it for her.

I feel so much better now. Thanks for helping me separate the emotions out!