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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
It's good that you kept a journal so you can remind yourself "why" you left. It's sad that he is devastated, but he needs help and you need to be able to have "your" life too which means not having to stay in a relationship where a partner treats you badly and it's toxic for "you".
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Thanks for that

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I was reading my journals earlier - I've been such a fool. In hindsight I should have left the year after we married. He was such a control freak I wasn't allowed to fry any foods - because it makes a mess and he used to clean up after supper. Nor could I cook curries spag bol or stews because they may boil over so no prizes for guessing what I am eating now

Donut anyone?? Lol