Thank you all for your input. For those of you who recommend staying true to my values, that's where I am at this point. I do believe I would resent him in the future if I accepted and allowed his drug use. However, he is the first man I've been with who has truly been supportive through my depressive episodes. He understands my mood swings and goes to my doc appts with me. Isn't this hard to find? I am torn b/c if I let him go I fear I may not find someone else who can accept my emotional shortcomings. That is something I NEED in a relationship and he is wonderful in that respect. Thoughts?