kecanoe - Thanks for your advice. I am thinking I may speak to her and then if I dont feel the issues have been resolved then inform the service provider and obtain a new counsellor. But I am still trying to make up my mind.

Budfox - Thank you!

AllHeart - Thanks for your support! Yes a pros and cons lost could be the way to go. Thanks for your lovely comments too! Before all this, I did feel that we were getting somewhere. But over the last couple of weeks I feel like T has let her own issues govern the session. Yes exactly re: potentital to get a lot worse. I have got to do what is right for me and protect myself because at the moment I am worrying about this a lot and I should be focussing on getting better, not on T my own T. I will let you know how things progress ��