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Old Dec 11, 2016, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by kecanoe View Post
Unfortunately there is probably nothing you can do to help your mom. She is the one who will have to make the decision to split up with this jerk.

But it might be a good idea to get yourself away from all this. If you are not in the midst of all the chaos and abuse, you will be more able to help your mom if she decides to leave him.
You're right. I'll stay as far as I can from their issues. I have, actually. It's just him that will get me and my grandmother involved in whatever ways he can. I don't want to ask her to leave the house--it might make her feel as if she needs her boyfriend even more than now. I will also try to transfer to a different school next semester, so I can just leave all of this behind, though I probably still won't be able to. I don't want to leave my grandmother all alone. But it's just too painful to watch her do this to herself and our family, and it's holding me back from living a fulfilling life.