Thanks. Yes my bf slipped on alcohol night before last. I read three things that have helped me in this; 1. don't be angry, 2. don't blame myself, and 3. don't give up hope. Just because he slipped doesn't mean he can't jump back into recovery. I have to keep going to meetings and keeping my recovery first. He is becoming more and more negative about meetings and not wanting to go. I can't get or make him sober but I'm not giving up on myself. I've come too far. Thanks everyone for posting.