I don't know what your track record is with your meds. Have you ever taken too many before? Is that why your husband holds them? If so, have you been stable for a period of time now that you feel capable of handling your meds yourself so that it's now time to discuss this with your husband? He's controlling because underneath he's afraid if he doesn't things will get out of control like they must have done once. You may need time to prove to him that you are trustworthy.