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Old Dec 13, 2016, 05:25 AM
Gojamadar Gojamadar is offline
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Originally Posted by Lonely Warrior View Post
How one can cope with the likely possibility that he/she will spend the rest of his/her life alone because of an incurable disease? Some said self-compassion, but how to find self-compassion in this case?
Hi,
Now is the time to sit down on a molehill and contemplate the future!
First of all, try to list your own faults and failours! Your prblem-in common with many depressed individuals is that you blame others for your misery. Try to list how many people try to help you and been good to you. Think of everybody as good and helpful, pick yourself up and move on.
Start with your own parents! They helped you, payed for your education and helped you financially. Think of trying to repay them with kind thoughts if you have no other means.
Many people live with illnesses and disabilities and find soulmates and even love. Try thinking and believing that everybody is good to you!
Thanks for this!
Lost_in_the_woods, venusss