I see absolutely nothing to critisize! Even if you are both depressed, I would think that hanging out together sometimes would be helpful. When I am depressed, I actually feel worse when I am hanging out with a group of happy, well adjusted people. I think it would be helpful for two depressed people to hang out together because you can understand how it feels to be depressed. Just keep checking in on her periodically. That is probably helping her tremendously. Good for you for finding help for yourself and showing concern for someone in need!