I am attracted to someone with BPD. For some time now, she's seemed very conflicted, a part of her loves me and is attracted to me, but another part of her finds me condescending, patronizing, etc. and becomes furious at me and the other part of herself that likes me. Lately, even the sight of me has been making her mad. But even when she's mad, she cracks and shows signs of liking me - then gets even more mad at me and herself for showing those signs of liking me.

What do you think is the best thing for me to do, if I like her and want her to like me?

(I feel like I just said, "me," about a dozen times. Oh, well.)