by all standards here, you are actually judging others in society yourself. You assume you know "people" don't accept you based on the few, yes few because no one actually knows multitudes personally. You are claiming that you are appalled by others that may judge you but yet this is exactly the behavior you are exhibiting by stating that you know "society" itself doesn't accept you. I don't think very many people put to thought whether or not they want to accept or deny someone into their fold based on "slow cognitive thinking" or awkwardness.

Let's face it. We judge others constantly. it's a fact. I don't care how many people here or in real life claim to be non judgmental in their attitudes, the fact is we all have standards as to who we find acceptable, for friendship, acquaintance, or as a mate. How does one decide whether their relationship with their husband, wife, gf or bf is good, bad or right or wrong? Judging. We all do this everyday, every second.

People have the right to either accept or deny you as a friend based on their own personal judgments and I will be honest you have no right to tell them or force them to accept you. YOU can only 1. find people that will accept you and 2. change your behaviors and focus on learning what it is that certain people don't like about you and doing something about it.