You do have control over it though. You can control your actions and behaviours.

You can't control your skin colour. You can't control where you were born.

We all have different starting points when it comes to things such as skills and intelligence. We also all have different ending points for them. But you can improve on them.

For example - you can change the way you think about society. Currently you think everyone is out to get you and anyone who is ever kind to you is faking. You can change that, not necessarily easily but you can. That would then make it easier to improve social skills. Therapy can help with that.

You blame and blame and blame and keep claiming you know for sure what other people think and want. You demand respect but don't respect others.