Again, Shadix, this is all about your conflict with your brother and your feelings of inferiority. Let's take the whole theoretical argument about society as a whole out of it and focus on the real issue.

I know it bothers you to no end about your brother causing you to feel inferior. I know you are having an impossibly hard time asking a girl out on a date because you feel they don't like you, and maybe they don't.

Let's focus on that, ok?