I can understand that fear. But, realistically, do you think that could make much difference? If he did find it and read it, he might be appalled instead of defensive.

That's what needs to happen, I think. Well-meaning therapists somehow need to understand how we've been hurt and "wronged" whether the therapists intended that or not. But they're not doing it just on our say-so. Understandable, maybe, still needs to change, if society holds to the value of valuing every citizen.