At the end of my session today I asked T if I could see a picture of her boyfriend/partner. She asked why. I said because I've seen pictures of her ex-husband, her kids, her pets. She isn't private about herself though most of the photos were from Facebook that I found on my own. I told her because I like to know about her life. I'm not sure what else to say. I think it's the usual reasons people have about feeling close to their T but it's not reciprocal. I just want an image in my head of whom she's with now. I know it's her right to not tell or show me, and that makes me sad.