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Originally Posted by Shadix
Most people will not openly disrespect me, but their true feelings still come out in the way they talk about other guys who are just like me. For example, when I hear people describing socially awkward gamer nerds who don't get girls as "losers", I know immediately they indeed see me as a "loser", even if I have never met them or talked to them. Sometimes you have to connect the dots.
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Them talking about other guys have nothing to do with you. You yourself talk about many people very negatively.
Also who are these people that discuss some nerdy gamers. Are they important to you? Are they discussing it with you or you are just overhearing them? So if you have never met or talk to these people, why does their opinion matter? And again what are the circumstances of you overhearing these strangers?
If you are a gamer then why not find groups of like minded people? My husband is a bit of a gamer and a nerd lol and is on awkward side (he actually does have formal life long diagnosis). He knows plenty of gamers like him. I am neither awkward nor a gamer but who the heck cares. We don't need to be all the same
If you don't start asking women out and joint social groups and getting professional help, you mind end up complaining about same thing 20 years from now. Get the ball rolling now