I knew it was time to go one minute after I said I do. It was initially my idea so I thought it was jitters. The only reason I got married was I had been with him three years and couldn't bring myself to break it off. Stupidly I thought it was the next step. My marriage was awful three times I left and filed for divorce. Even dumber I had a child hoping it would help us bond.

Almost 16 years later (officially on 12/26) I'm still married and four of those years were spent battling in court. Definitely over my ex! Can't wait for the final decree. I kick myself frequently for being too wimpy to get a divorce sooner. If I had been honest with myself and my husband that I mad a mistake. I probably wouldn't have spent $40K trying to get a divorce.

My badd!!