Thanks to all for the warm welcome. We are trying. The new suv thing is crazy. I don't know what he is thinking. He is the one that said he wanted a divorce and it was over at firSt now we are working on it. I will not be able to afford it I have not worked in over 20 yrs. I have been married to this man for 21 years and took care of us. I'm trying to find work but it's hard tell someone I never worked and need a chance.