I'm really sorry about this...I know that a baby should bring family together...

In my family there is a member that turned on me. I have had occasion that I had to go and be pleasant.

Sometimes we have to face family just the same as we would face an acquaintance. Go, be polite, do your duty and then have a glass of wine when you get home.

Treat it like an office get-together.

Then you can come here and vent and we will absolutely commiserate with you...

You can do this.