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Originally Posted by divine1966
They do want to date. They just aren't interested and since you pursue them in rather intense fashion they don't want to say no in a rude manner. So they say they want to be friends. That's indirect way of telling you they aren't interested.
At 29 you need to get your life together. Get a job or/and go to school. That should be step one in the right direction.
I don't know how your parents are allowing this. My daughter is same age as you and wouldn't be allowed not to work and live totally off me while spending her days on dating sites pursuing all kind of guys. That's just isn't right
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Divine is right. When a guy says he just wants to be friends, it means he's not romantically interested in you. Move on. No sense wasting time trying to make someone want you who doesn't.
I am not aware of the other parts of this, but I will say that as a female, if a guy approached me who lived with his parents and did not have a job, then I would not date him. Those are just deal breakers for me. My brother used to say his top 5 rules were: 1)Must not live at home 2) Must have a job 3) Must have a car 4) Must not be a criminal 5) must have never been a man.
Obviously we all have our standards and preferences, but the not live at home and have a job thing are two pretty typical requirements that people seek in a partner.
I do not think you are going to have success in dating and romance until you deal with your personal issues.
Good luck,
seesaw