I'd say not driving might not be as s big of deal as not working. Some people can't drive for health reasons (like seizures etc) My daughter doesn't drive but she is very successful. She moved to the city with excellent public transportation. I could also understand living with family as many cultures do it just following traditions or some people prefer living with family rather than roommates and some are helping elderly parents. But not working...there is just no excuse imho unless in school or in disability (even then many still work).