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Originally Posted by Nammu
You tried to get him help before, he refused. You've done many things trying to ke things better. Now it's time for him to start taking responsibility for his own life. If you contact him it will only reward bad behavior and encourage him to continue this acting out to get his way. He's in the hospital and he's safe. Let them help him and don't give him a reason to even dream that this behavior will get him what he wants.
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Thanks Nammu,
I was feeling strong but faltering a bit. My mum said if it was me she'd want him to help me - typical 78 yr old worry wort mum. Thing is 1, I never did the things he did and 2, I would not self harm and 3, even though I know the first 2 its not helping yet I dont want to go back. My brains have turned to scrambled eggs
. I feel so stressed out I've just taken a clonzepam but nothings happened yet. Its the first time I've taken them so no clue how I should feel but anything would be better than this