Yes it hurts to be frozen out, and some of us are a little different from the norm in how we think and communicate.

As I have got older my differences have mattered less and less to me, I have tended to gravitate to those who are a little different from the norm too because I find them more interesting and a better fit for me. The fact is I find those who would ostracise and freeze out rather dull.

I don't know how old you are but I hope that you can grow to feel more at ease with yourself, and truly not worry about what others think.