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Old Dec 16, 2016, 01:53 PM
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Move on, this guy isn't interested. Also, I kinda don't blame him for backing off when you barely know him and chastise him for not talking to you more. What exactly does he owe you to have to talk to you more? I was in a long-distance relationship with my ex for 4 years. We didn't even talk as much as you are demanding this guy talk to you. My BF was at work all day and so was I. Mostly we texted after work or chatted via Skype online (phone calls were difficult because he lived just over the border in Canada and it was considered an international call).

Planning dates and weekend visits took a lot of work, but we both were committed to it. If a guy is interested in seeing you, he will make it happen. This guy is not interested. He's responding that he likes you because you are putting him on the spot and chastising him and he doesn't want to get into an argument with you. Also, he may be interested in just hitting you up for sex sometime.

It's very suspicious behavior.

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