Hi lucami, interesting that you picked Alice from Alice in Wonderland for your avatar. You know, when one is young and sees that movie they don't realize that "life" can actually be a lot like that movie where in life we can come across others who behave in some pretty crazy ways. You know, one would think that no one would ever really behave like the queen of hearts right?, ah but there are people out there that do behave in ways like the queen of hearts and other charectors in that movie/story. When one is young I don't think they understand the art in that movie that is imitating life.

The answer to your question is "no" it's not too much to ask or need help. The people that tell you it is are people that are the kind of charectors that don't know "how" to help, but, there are people out there that do know and are willing to sit and listen and help you work through the challenges you have that you struggle with. I have learned that help can come from different people and I find that one person doesn't have all the answers because no one has "all" the answers as we are all on a journey and everyone is a bit different in the amount of wisdom they gain.