Closertothemid, thanks for your response. It is a pretty tame thing if I think about it. I was never into hard core porn or anything , never into feet, bdsm etc etc . This is the only sort of "out there" thing that I really really like, maybe like how some guys really like stockings on their lady or whatever. In fact , lingerie in general is just a huge turn on for me I don't know why but its just the way it is for me.