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That is interesting. So, once you get yourself into this love situation, how do you get out of it? That is the million dollar question.

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I don't think the goal is to get out of it. I think the goal is to relish the fact that you can and do love and to learn to expand that capacity outside the safety of therapy. To love is to really let yourself live life -- you can feel all the different kinds of love. I think love evolves, like everything else. I guess I don't want to get over loving my T, although of course I wish I didn't miss him so much when I wasn't with him. I actually wish I could have these strong feelings for someone else.

It is just that no one else feels safe.