Thank you All, really appreciate your support.
So I've received an email from his sister with a scanned letter from him saying he has no idea why I left after all he does for me and to come home so we can sort it out. He then goes into great detail about things he does do like hanging the washing out and bringing it back in, vacuuming, making the bed etc - all are chores he chose to do, theres no mention of what he doesnt do that I have to. This is what hes done right through, he chooses what he doesnt and I pick up what he doesnt do, like working full time, banking shopping, cooking, washing, cleaning bathrooms, shower rooms, dusting - he vacuums but refuses to dust. Not to mention running him around when he wants to go somewhere, ok its not often but still crazy I have to take time off work to take him to the doctors or dentist or pets to the vets.
I have no idea how to or even if I should reply. Just feels like hes playing mind games.
Thanks for listening. So thankful I found this forum