You contradict yourself. if things are working out for you then why are you posting that things aren't working out for you? Do you not see the contradiction?

Ok let's say this guy is completely against dating (yet he is on a dating site but ok), then why are you asking on here how to force him to date you? And why are you trying to convince him to take you on a date constantly contacting him demanding dates? If you are aware he isn't into dating then why are you pursuing him?

You in fact started the entire thread on how to make men to start dating you. It seemed to be your topic of each thread how to get men to date you. Yet at the same time you are aware that they don't want to date (like this particular guy)? Isn't a bit of a harassment? Trying to get people do things they do not want to?

And how do you know what he tells you is true? Most interactions you have with these men are online. Who knows what they are up to irl. How many times and how much time total you spent with this man? So because this guy you barely know tells you all kind of stories and you believe them all.

I don't know how you can possibly say your life is all figured out. What's the evidence of that?