I wouldn't even consider responding. You made the break.....stick to your guns without a waver.

Lol, that's a list of THINGS....how about where is the list of emotional support or REAL CONNECTION he (doesn't) have with you. My husband would do nice things. He would even visit me in the hospital.....why???? Because in his mind he knew it was the right thing to do, not because there was any feeling involved in his doing it.

If this guy is so helpless, maybe the hospital needs to find a group home for him when he is ready to be discharged...sure thing he's not capable of caring for himself.

Be WISE. if you have to keep reading your journals to remember why you left....do it. People outside the walls you two lived in have no idea how really bad it was for you & people create a good picture they want to believe to make themselves feel good about something they know nothing about. You know....it's important to hold onto why you left & not question yourself.

No matter what the reason he is the way he is, he is NOT COMPATIBLE with you NOW & that is all that counts. He knows why you left....he is just playing games with you....don't get back in the game.

As others have said, it will just reinforce his pathetic behavior....definitely NOT A GOOD THING TO DO. It's time he grow up & take responsibility for his own life.