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Originally Posted by stolemyheart87
But being friends doesn't lead to dating. Its like if I know I like this person and I want to date them, I want to date them. I don't want to loose my chance and they get away. I don't want to go and find someone else and then that person is the one, when I wanted the guy that wanted to be friends.
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BTW, being friends absolutely can lead to dating. The two biggest loves of my life started as friends and ended as real true, legit love. The first one didn't happen because I didn't realize it soon enough, and he got tired of waiting for me to realize it, and he moved on. I don't know if I'll ever truly get over that.
The second one didn't make it because of mental health issues between the two of us.
Friendship absolutely can blossom into the kind of love that transcends all life. In fact, I would rather, at this point in my life, make a good friend with someone rather than just find a date. And if a good friend of mine turns into something more, well, that's just ideal.
Just saying.
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