Ok I have to say that as a kid like when I was 13 or so I remember just the lingerie section of like the sears catalogue or jc penny or whatever turned me on. Like there didn't even have to be a model or whatever. I guess just the connotations of it. This is hard for me to admit because I feel like it is a huge problem that I got turned on from that. Like if you look at societies view of it one should only be turned on by a significant other or spouse, you shouldn't be more sexually excited just because of what your significant other is wearing ,etc.Maybe I am vastly overthinking this. I mean maybe it's not the end of the world that this is one of my big turn ons. If I really just stop and look at it logically it's a pretty "soft" thing to be into. I mean I'm not into hardcore bdsm for example (although there's nothing wrong with that if both people consent). It's hard to go really in depth about this because it's like scrutinizing specific things about sexuality I guess you can say.
Last edited by Ubuntu1; Dec 17, 2016 at 03:53 PM.
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